DIP Episode #31: Sex – Just say it.
Relationships rarely flourish when the those involved fail to state their desires. The unparalleled passion that accompanies the development of a new relationship can slowly tarnish over time. This is not because of some universal law of physics but rather from a lack of communication. There are many things that destroy a relationship but the two most polarizing are sex and money. If your relationship seems so far away from the hot passion of where it began, perhaps it’s time to get it back. People cheat on each other because someone else makes them feel something they haven’t felt in a very long time, ALIVE. If you’re married or in a relationship with your best friend, then you should be able to share your deepest passions and desires. For many, talking about sexual intimacy can be like pulling teeth. It’s no wonder so many marriages end up in divorce. If you want to get your relationship back on track and growing again, perhaps it’s time to express your desires with your significant other. Be bold, honest, and very detailed about what you want. Life is short so don’t live with regret. SAY IT and don’t forget, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.